ESP 7.5 The Dad Mindset with Rich Bolus (part 1)

Summary

Rich Bolus hosts The Dad Mindset podcast which you can find at http://thedadmindset.com

You can download my free Restorative Parenting Quickstart Guide at bit.ly/dadagain

I have two email addresses – both are super-private! Try either info@essentialstepmom.com or tracy@tracypoizner.com

Did you know I have a Facebook group for divorced dads? It’s called One For The Dads – send a join request: facebook.com/groups/oneforthedads

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ESP 7.4 Best-of-Essential-Stepmom, Red Flags with Lori Sims

Summary

Lori Sims is the creator of the ingenious Nacho Kids method and the Nacho Kids Academy which is saving blended families and second marriages every single day.

Check out the Nacho Kids Academy with this link and she’ll send some support right back to this podcast!

NachoKidsAcademy.com/theessentialstepmom

Shoot me an email at info@essentialstepmom.com

Ready to just book yourself in as a coaching client? Here’s my calendar:

Book Your Coaching Appointment Here!

Is your husband/partner ready to conquer alienation through parenting mastery, mental resilience and a kick-ass system to track his brand-new parenting wins? Here’s my coaching program for divorced dads:  UNDELETABLE DAD

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ESP 7.3 When can a weary dad just give up?

Summary

Alienated kids can be awful to their divorced parent. Does your partner ever just feeling like giving up? It’s pretty normal to run out of steam and it’s OK to take a break but don’t give in to despair. Miracles happen all the time – you can even make them happen yourself! Grab my free “Restorative Parenting Quick start Guide” by going to bit.ly/dadagain .

Join the awesome Spectacular Stepmom group at facebook.com/groups/thespectacularstepmom

Tell your partner to send a join request to One For The Dads at facebook.com/groups/oneforthedads

Let’s be pen pals! Here’s an invitation to my email community where you’ll get a funny or useful or heartfelt message from me once a week and you can write back to me any time you like! Send a message to info@essentialstepmom.com and say “Email list please!”

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ESP 7.2 A bit of “woo” – from me to you.

Summary

Here’s a little spirituality for the season – non denominational of course. I hope you enjoy the ESR Technique to help you chill out and turn down the volume on your Yuletide stress. You can reach me at info@essentialstepmom.com

Ready to just take the leap and say this time next year that coaching was the thing that actually transformed your stepfamily into a pleasant and rewarding place to live? Let’s talk about what it looks like to work together . (No pressure – the call is free whether or not you decide to enroll!)

https://tracypoizner.bookafy.com

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ESP 7.1 Not Just A Stepmom with Heidi Farrell

Summary

Heidi’s blog can be found at notjustastepmom.com

Grab my free Restorative Parenting QuickStart Guide at bit.ly/dadagain

Would you (or your partner) share your experiences of parental alienation with me? Email me at info@essentialstepmom.com to set something up, or just go ahead and jump onto my calendar to book any time you see that works for you:

https://tracypoizner.bookafy.com/service/invitation-to-chat

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ESP 6.8 F_Divorce: Jack Rollins

Summary

Jack is not a dad but he’s divorced and he has some valuable insights into one husband’s emotional experience after a failed marriage. You can find him on instagram at @f_divorce, on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/fdivorce and on the F_Divorce Podcast

Join my Facebook group “One For The Dads” by sending a join request to facebook.com/groups/oneforthedads. You’ll find a bunch of fellas there who will be glad to know you!

Grab my FREE Restorative Parenting Quickstart Guide here: bit.ly/dadagain

Ready to stop horsing around and stop feeling the effects of parental alienation in your family? Give me a call and let’s talk about how I can guide you to resolve that problem “unconventionally”, the way we did it and other families are doing it with similar success. There’s no obligation to sign up but you won’t know if you’re right for my program unless you ask! Click the link and book a call.

https://tracypoizner.bookafy.com/service/free-discovery-call

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ESP 6.7 The completely amazing, totally absent bio mom.

Summary

Are you sick and tired of hearing about your stepchild’s fantastic mom, when you’re the one showing up for the child in all the way’s she’s not?

Let’s talk this through, and we’ll talk about life coaching too – maybe you’re finally ready to make a step towards letting go of the filters that are keeping you from having a better experience of stepmom life.

Send me an email at info@essentialstepmom.com and say “I’m not sure yet, but talk to me about what coaching involves”.  We have to BOTH believe that I’m the right coach for you, so you won’t ever be pressured. Anyway I hope you know that pressure isn’t my style!

My blog is at essentialstepmom.com, my Facebook group is The Spectacular Stepmom and there’s even one for the dads called One For The Dads!

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ESP 6.6 Trystan Reese Part 2

Summary

Pre-order Trystan’s book “How We Do Family” from Amazon, or support one of the last standing independent booksellers, Powells of Portland Oregon:

https://www.powells.com/book/how-we-do-family-9781615197569

Trystan is on Facebook and Instagram @biffandi

Interested in learning tools to share with your child or stepchild to help them be resilient in the face of emotional or psychological pressure from their other parent? Join my webinar this Thursday November 19 at 7:30 pm EST:

CHILD FRIENDLY TOOLS FOR COPING WITH A TOXIC PARENT – https://training.essentialstepmom.com/child-friendly-tools/

You’ll be getting life-time access to the replay and transcript so no worries if you miss the live web event!

If you’d like to know more about UNDELETABLE DAD ACADEMY, my 6-month premium coaching program to prevent parental alienation from disrupting your ability to be an effective and authentic parent to your kids, email me at tracy@tracypoizner.com. I’ll be glad to send you more information or to add you to the waitlist for next year’s round of the program.

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ESP 6.5 Trystan Reese shines a bright light on your secret fears (part 1 of 2)

Summary

“If I can’t be like those perfect multi-household-happy-families who all get along and do Thanksgiving together, am I broken?” 

I don’t know about you, but I can totally relate to thinking my family should look – at least a little – like the ones on Instagram, but this guy says things out loud that I only whisper inside my own head! In part one of this 2-part interview, Trystan shares some personal truths (and profound wisdom) from his personal journey as “sudden-full-time-parent”, adoptive parent and bio parent.

Trystan Reese is the author of an upcoming book called “How We Do Family”  that can be pre-ordered from Powell’s at:

https://www.powells.com/book/how-we-do-family-9781615197569

Don’t forget to check out Trystan’s Facebook page, Biff and I

Register here for my 3-day Facebook event: STICK TO YOUR GUNS: A parenting bootcamp for divorced dads (and other good guys)!

bit.ly/dadpower

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ESP 6.4 Man the F_%@ Up! with Deuce Almightee

Summary

You can follow Deuce on Facebook at Deuce Almightee, and on Instagram @EHYODEUCE

His webinar is taking place on Thursday November 5th – you can sign up here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZIkcuiurzguE9C6bP1aHLP5GNMtA1WBO69b

You can register for my free Facebook Challenge: “Stick To Your Guns”: Parenting for Divorced Dads with this link:

bit.ly/dadpower

Connect with me anytime at info@essentialstepmom.com

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