This is part 2 of my 3-part conversation with Florida-based family law attorney Seth Nelson. Listen at 2:20 to hear Seth describe the the 3 worlds in which he lives as a divorce attorney, at 5:25 to learn about the many categories that courts consider (Factors A, B, C….all the way to Factor T!) and 10:10 to hear his take on why 60/40 might be better for you, even if you’re getting the short end of the stick.
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Want to know more about exactly how to make those boundaries you wish you had? Here are my top 5 tools for making better boundaries with your ex, your kids, even your spouse.
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If you’re a divorced dad wanting to rescue your relationship with your kids, or to learn how to parent in this upside-down family dynamic where the kids have way too much power, or to be ready to totally slay any attempt to reduce your custody or visitation, or to protect your personal finances from being shredded over the next 10-15 years, talk to me about my 6-month 1:1 coaching experience for dads. It’s a significant investment, but your ROI will be absolutely spectacular! Set up a complimentary chat at bit.ly/CALLTRACY — Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/essentialstepmom/message
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Here are the episodes I suggested from our archives:
9.1 Expectations vs Agreements
8.1 The Teenage stepdaughter with Mary Kelly
7.5, 7.6 Up-leveling as a dad with Rich Bolus of The Dad Mindset podcast
6.5, 6.6 Trystan Reese author of How We Do Family
5.5 Kate Anthony – first wife forever syndrome
4.4 Me: How do you bond with a kid who wants nothing to do with you
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