The Womanly Art of Raising Someone Else's Kids
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Here are some highlights of today’s conversation with Seth Nelson:
1:10 – when Seth got divorced, the law required one parent was named the primary residential, the other was secondary. In the end, it’s all about your ego, it’s just a label.
5:25 – On frequency of visits, it’s often better to have more visits for a shorter time, especially for younger kids.
7:25 – 95% of the time you have with your child is before they’re 18!
You can find Seth’s podcast at How To Split A Toaster – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-split-a-toaster-a-divorce-podcast-about/id1527497405 and his website is https://nelsonkoster.com
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This is part 2 of my 3-part conversation with Florida-based family law attorney Seth Nelson. Listen at 2:20 to hear Seth describe the the 3 worlds in which he lives as a divorce attorney, at 5:25 to learn about the many categories that courts consider (Factors A, B, C….all the way to Factor T!) and 10:10 to hear his take on why 60/40 might be better for you, even if you’re getting the short end of the stick.
Seth’s podcast is How To Split A Toaster – you can find it here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-split-a-toaster-a-divorce-podcast-about/id1527497405
His website is https://nelsonkoster.com/
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This is episode 99 of the Essential Stepmom podcast! In honour of reaching our 100th episode tomorrow, I’m hosting a contest! Give this podcast a review on Apple podcasts and win a chance for a free 60-minute coaching with me – alone, or with your partner! Just find us on Apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/essential-stepmom-podcast/id1466706524, write a brief review, screenshot it and email it to me at info@essentialstepmom.com. Can’t wait to see yours there! — Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/essentialstepmom/message
“Live your life, not your divorce!”
Seth’s podcast is called “How To Split A Toaster: A divorce podcast about saving your relationships”. Here’s a link to the show on Apple podcasts:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-split-a-toaster-a-divorce-podcast-about/id1527497405
You can contact Seth’s office in Tampa, Florida via his website, https://nelsonkoster.com
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“Live your life, not your divorce!”
Seth’s podcast is called “How To Split A Toaster: A divorce podcast about saving your relationships”. Here’s a link to the show on Apple podcasts:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-split-a-toaster-a-divorce-podcast-about/id1527497405
You can contact Seth’s office in Tampa, Florida via his website, https://nelsonkoster.com
Sign up for The Ultimate Stepmfamily Summit with my link to get my special registration bonus, access to over 50 of my stepmom video tutorials!
Click here: https://bit.ly/tracysummit
My gift is crafting ingenious parenting/custody/life strategies for the divorced dad. Contact me at info@essentialstepmom.com for more information about my comprehensive 6-month 1:1 Undeletable Dad coaching offer. — Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/essentialstepmom/message
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Want to know more about exactly how to make those boundaries you wish you had? Here are my top 5 tools for making better boundaries with your ex, your kids, even your spouse.
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If you’re a divorced dad wanting to rescue your relationship with your kids, or to learn how to parent in this upside-down family dynamic where the kids have way too much power, or to be ready to totally slay any attempt to reduce your custody or visitation, or to protect your personal finances from being shredded over the next 10-15 years, talk to me about my 6-month 1:1 coaching experience for dads. It’s a significant investment, but your ROI will be absolutely spectacular! Set up a complimentary chat at bit.ly/CALLTRACY — Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/essentialstepmom/message
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